Advice, reviews and opinions for Hims and Thems looking for a gender-neutral lifestyle. Check out these recent highlights:
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Can men wear tights, stockings and hold-ups?
Cold Sunday afternoons in Wigan taught me that tights underneath jeans are a step to soccer-watching warmth. Cold stadium bathrooms in Wigan taught me that maybe hold-ups or stockings are much easier to manage. Ready to learn more about tights and stockings for men? Read more
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A few shopping tips for Hims and Thems buying skirts
Some places do a sort of 3D website that you can walk around and talk to real people and try stuff on to see how you feel about it. Read more
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Where can Hims and Thems buy lingerie for men?
Hopefully you’re convinced that lingerie is for everybody and every body. The question is, where can you buy it? Read more
Welcome to Postgenderific!
Providing advice, opinions and inspiration for Hims and Thems who want to live a more gender-neutral lifestyle. If you’ve ever wondered why things were marketed as “for men” or “for women” when clearly they could be used by all genders, then you’re in the right place!
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‘Can men moisturise?’ A simple skincare routine for Hims and Thems
In which we answer the age old question ‘are men allowed to moisturise?’ with the response ‘of course they bloody are’. Read more
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Roundup of Pride 2023 Lingerie for Hims and Thems
Yes! It’s that time of year when rainbow-coloured copies of Leviticus become freely available. Read more
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You can wear anything if you wear it with confidence
How to channel your inner Regina George. Read more
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Advanced Google search tips to help shop responsibly
It’s the exact opposite of searching on Amazon. Read more
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Last night a journal saved my life
Mine and Adrian Mole’s birthdays are a few months apart and I have always felt a kinship to him, quite apart from being the only person who recognises Adrian as the greatest poet in the English language. Read more
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On the taking of selfies for mental health
Do you want to know something? I was 49 before I had a mirror in my bedroom. That’s how long I spent trying to deal with the way I look. Read more
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Can men wear underwear as outerwear?
Is society ready for Hims and Thems to be showing off their undercrackers in public? Read more
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Where can Hims and Thems buy lingerie for men?
Hopefully you’re convinced that lingerie is for everybody and every body. The question is, where can you buy it? Read more
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What do we call men who wear lingerie?
Fashion-forward. Stylish. Adventurous. Open-minded. Hot. Normal! Read more
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Can men wear women’s lingerie?
Well, yes, but no, but also sometimes; mainly it depends. Frankly, if it fits, then why not. Does that help? Read more
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What is men’s lingerie?
What’s the difference between underwear, lingerie, and lingerie designed for men? Read more
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What is the difference between men’s underwear and men’s lingerie?
If clothing is the representation of the self, then maybe underwear is the representation of the inner self. Read more
What can you find on the site?
Advice and inspiration
Practical, friendly and occasionally even relevant advice about how to live your postgender life.
Reviews and buying guides
We try stuff out, to help you decide if you want to try stuff out, and then spare no detail. No detail.
Opinions and discussions
Everyone’s path is unique, and we’re just here to help you think about how to live your own life.
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Review: Wolf & Whistle Ayla Black Suspender with Harness
“What does it do?” “Nothing.” “Really, what does it do?” “Whatever it does, it’s doing it now.” Read more
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Review: Dragman, by Steven Appleby
Funny, sad, touching, triggering, endearing and heartwarming, and that’s just the cover. Read it, now. Read more
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Review: Deja Day Second Skin Black Recycled Highwaist Brief
Make no bones about it; these may be marketed to women, but they’re as unisex as briefs get. Read more
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Review: Bravehearts: Men in Skirts, by Andrew Bolton
PSA: this is not a book about one of the most historically inaccurate films of modern times. Read more
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Review: Lindex Ella M seamless micro suspender belt in black
It’s a problem that has haunted mankind since the dawn of time; is it possible to find a gender-free suspender belt? Read more
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Review: XDress Valentina Bra and Shorts
Wear what thou wilt should be the whole of the law; especially when thou lookest this good in fishnet holdups. Read more
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Review: Wolf & Whistle Alice Black Mesh Leg Harness High Waist Brief
In which your author invents the phrase “sideball”. Read more
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Review: the Rocks Off Teazer Petite Sensations Beginner’s Vibrating Butt Plug
Non-threatening bum fun for beginners by means of an overstimulated pencil. Read more
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Review: Bi, by Dr Julia Shaw
NB: the bi prefix in ‘bisexual’ relates to ‘same gender’ and ‘other gender’. It does not mean ‘men’ and ‘women’. Read more
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A few styling tips for Hims and Thems wearing skirts
Fashion is about taking chances, experimenting, daring to be bold while wearing something that you’re comfortable in. Read more
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A few shopping tips for Hims and Thems buying skirts
Some places do a sort of 3D website that you can walk around and talk to real people and try stuff on to see how you feel about it. Read more
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What different types of skirts are there?
If you’re interested in skirts but don’t know your mermaids from your peplums, we’ve got the beginner’s guide that you need. Read more
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How many different skirt lengths are there?
If you’re confused about the difference between a below-the-knee skirt and a midi skirt, well we have solidarity with you. But maybe these pics will help. Read more
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A detailed yet concise timeline of men wearing skirts and, to a lesser extent, dresses
Contrary to popular opinion, Harry Styles did not invent men wearing dresses. Read more